Julien Carlton Picot, Jr.

Julien Carlton Picot, Jr.

Suffolk, VA
09.30.1925 - 08.29.2020
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Julien Carlton Picot, Jr. 94, passed away Saturday, August 29, 2020. He was born in South Norfolk, Virginia to the late Julien Carlton and Eulah D. Picot. He was predeceased by his wife of over 60 years, Sharon Jean C. Picot and his son, Chip Picot.

Julien was a 1943 graduate of Suffolk High School where he played basketball and football with many of his friends. He joined and served his country in the US Merchant Marines (1943-1946), accepted in University of Richmond thru efforts of Dr. S. Habel (West End Baptist Church) and his good friend Dr. Pinchbeck; enjoyed the rough journey along with the inspiring fellowship of Kappa Sigma’s, graduating  in 1950 with a degree in Business Administration; drafted in the US Army as Pvt-E-1 upon graduation; transferred to Army Audit Agency in Atlanta, married the love of his life, Sharon, on July 18, 1953 and spend the balance of his military obligation until discharge in September 1953. Julien’s civilian career finally began in Atlanta with US Army Audit and Defense Contract Audit Agency/ Resident Auditor at Charlotte Ordnance Missile Plant (Nov. 1956-1959), Western Electric Complex (Early 19560-May 1974), Newport News Shipbuilding (June 1974-1949) and Langley Offices (1980-1984); retirement came in 1984 with self-employment as a Consultant thru December 2016.

Julien is survived his son, Dean Picot (Gina) of Greenville, NC; daughter, Renee P. Gilman (Doug) of Midlothian, VA; daughter-in-law, Tracia Howell of Chuckatuck, VA; seven grandchildren, Tara, Chelsea, Gaby, Chandler, Kristen, Jared and Sharon Marie and three great grandchildren, Jacob, Chole and Chip.

Julien loved sports, antiques, researching his ancestry and would have continued working until the day he died, if he had been able. He loved watching his westerns (no matter how many times he had seen them) and many old movies.

He touched many lives throughout his life. He and Sharon loved their family and friends, many of whom have passed on. Thank you to all his family, neighbors and friends for all the loving support throughout his life. Especially, thank you to the staff at Lake Prince Woods, who provide loving care and support for him these last years.

Due to coronavirus, the family will have a graveside service on Saturday, September 5, 2020 at Holly Lawn Cemetery at 1 PM.  We request that all participants social distancing and wear face coverings. In lieu of flowers, the family request that donations be made to the Sharon & Chip Picot Scholarship Fund at the Suffolk Art League, P.O. Box 1086 Suffolk, VA 23434. Condolences may be registered at www.RWBakerFH.com

Julien wrote, “ Thanks for the great memoires provide by my Honey, Chip, Dean Renee, Grandchildren, Great Grandchildren, STC and Staff, David Darden, William Ballard, James Sharpe, Gary Smith and families.”

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Holly Lawn
Suffolk, VA 23434
United States


Your father was such a wonderful friend to our parents. He gave our father rides to Jolly Boys during the last several years when our father stopped driving. Julien was always thoughtful and caring. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. We send our love and sympathy to the Picot family.

Brenda and Doug Kincaid

Your Dad had such a wonderful heart and great sense of humor. I recall him visiting my parents when they were in assisted living and it was so comforting to know he was staying in touch as their lives were changing. He always spoke of how much he missed your mother. Prayers for peace and comfort and love to all the family.

Alice and John Nicks

Hadn't seen Julien in many years, but he and his dad and Eulah were my next door neighbors on Linden Avenue when I was born (1942). They were a great family, and Julien was a good citizen and example. My sincerest condolences to his family.

Holt Livesay

Mr. Picot was one of the nicest people I have ever met in my life. I met him while I was a CNA at Lake Prince Woods. I could sit and talk to him for hours, if my schedule allowed me to, he was a genuinely nice person, who could make anyone smile. I am saddened to hear of his passing, he will truly be missed. My condolences for the family during this time of loss.

Tiffany Harper

Condolences to the Picot family. I met Mr. Picot through my daughter Megan, who works at Lake Prince Woods. They had a special relationship and I know that she will miss their time together. I enjoyed talking with him on a few occasions when I attended events at LPW or just stopped in to see Megan.

My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Dottie Bell

What joy this man brought to so many
He led a remarkable life and shared it with his friends and family
I have so many memories of times spent with my family
At the beach, boating and fishing and the gang at the Creek
Quite remarkable
He will be missed by many

Bill Darden

Our sincere condolences. Prayers for strength and peace during this difficult time.

David and Cindy Gibson

Julien was a great mentor and friend, he always had a kind word to share. He and my Dad were quite a pair, especially if on a fishing trip together. I know the Picot family has lost a great man and I share their loss. Rest peacefully old friend.

Dwight & Julie

Dwight & Julie Darden

My sister, Elyse, loved him and he loved her as well. I met him on my visits to my sisters workplace and knew the father/daughter relationship they shared in his "retirement". What an outstanding individual, life is better for all that knew you.

R. Bryan Hengeveld

You did it your way! Not enough kind words in the dictionary to define such a gentleman. We will treasure our memories of you and the stories you could tell. I’m sure they will have Picots popcorn on thursdays. Forever in our hearts

Kevin and Cheri Thomas

In our household, I always heard about “Picot” and Sharon. They were wonderful friends to my parents, Dot and Clarence Burton, for many, many years. I have a special place in my heart for Renee and her mom and dad. You have my love and thanks.

Chris Ward

I will miss you Mr Picot.


Danny Gilman

We are all saddened by Picot's passing. He was such a fun person, and our mother thought the world of him. Lake Prince Woods will not be the same. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Betty Grady and family

All my life my grandfather was the epicenter of our family. A man who worked tirelessly to provide and be an example of what good and decent was and is. Even from a distance, he provided guidance and reassurance. He showed us all what was possible if we believe and work hard enough. I hope that one day I will be able to say I made him proud and that I added to the legacy he has left behind.


Jared Picot

He was a great man, father, and friend to our family. He will surely be missed by all. A lot of great memories were shared with our family

Jack and Sandee Darden.

I worked with JP at STC for 18 years, and learned the contracts business from both him and Ed Bimler. We worked side-by-side in the same office for many of those years. He was an absolute joy and a treasure to work with. A very smart man, and a gentleman. Sometimes I’d get an intentional attitude with him, and he’d always respond by pointing his finger at me sayIng “Hey look...” I knew I was in for the fatherly lecture at that point. So many funny and happy moments during those years. A bright star has gone out and the world and universe just got a little dimmer.

Carla Coombs

We are sorry for your loss, and sending our love to your family in this difficult time.

Joshua, Heather & Cécile Gilman

Your father was the most genuine, friendly, and fun person I have ever met. He was such a wonderful person to work with, and he was also my mentor, the best. He was the kindest person with a BIG heart and a great sense of humor. He shared and taught me many aspects of work because of his wealth of knowledge and working expertise. Sharing, working with, and knowing him was a great pleasure because he always made us smile and laugh. We are very saddened to hear of his passing, but he is now with his beloved wife and a son. His legacy will be in your heart as well as ours forever. He will truly be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Maggie and Jimmy Bevelacqua

Margaret Bevelacqua

I just learned of Julien's passing as even though he was my neighbor just across the street, I had not seen him in a long time and had no idea he was 94 years old! He was a true gentleman just as Sharon was such a kind woman. He will be missed and my prayers are with the family as you go through this tough time. Billy Chorey

Billy Chorey

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